| Title
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FOR
THE SAKE OF CAMBODIA |
| Country
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Cambodia |
| Author
Name : |
Debbie Meroff |
| Date
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Nov
1, 2005 |
It’s
07:30 and team members in Phnom Penh are unlocking the
security gate in front of their house. Owners of motorbike-taxis
are already waiting on the street outside. Two of the
staff wedge themselves behind a driver and they take off.
Even at this hour the heat and pollution are oppressive.
The fifteen-minute ride through heavy traffic --fraught
with near-collisions with other vehicles--takes them past
rows of sidewalk vendors including Buddha shops, and over
the Monivong bridge.
Their
destination lies behind another gate. The “White
House” is a large, two-story building serving as
the base for Mercy Teams International (MTI)
Since starting the ministry from scratch in 2004, Singapore
social workers Elijah and Grace Sim have made extraordinary
progress.
MTI’s
focus is children at risk. Nearly 43% of Cambodia’s
population is under age 15. In the capital city, 10-15,000
children are regularly on the streets, working or begging.
Sexual exploitation and trafficking of children is commonplace.
For many destitute families living on an average yearly
income of perhaps U.S.$310, the prospect of earning $150
for the sale of a virgin daughter is irresistable. UN
ESCAP reports that "Khmer girls have been trafficked
out of Cambodia by the thousands to meet demand for child
prostitutes in Thailand." But girls—often very
young--are also subject to molestation in the home or
extended family. And other injuries to boys and girls
through domestic violence are part of everyday life.
The
Sims’ anti-abuse strategy encompasses prevention,
remedial care, and training. Prevention means community
education and practical help. In the destitute neighborhoods
close to MTI, a tough economic situation is made even
tougher by fires and floods.
“The
area has had three fires with 100 family homes destroyed.
People call the fire department, but when the engines
come the firemen want money before putting the fire out!
And almost every year the Mekong River floods the villages.
Each time they have to start again.” For such people,
life is a daily struggle simply to survive.
“You
can see children on the streets collecting rubbish to
sell and sniffing glue, which often leads to brain damage
or more serious drug-taking. Drugs are sold openly here,
and violence in the home is often a result. That’s
why we have a holistic view of helping whole families,”
explains Elijah. “Parents don’t always see
education as important—only as a loss of income.
We are still trying to deal with that, and hope to develop
income generation schemes in the future.”
At
the White House, a weekly club helps staff get to know
neighbourhood children and identify their problems. About
120 boys and girls happily converge to take baths, get
their hair washed or cut, receive first aid, play games,
and listen to stories. They also learn ways to protect
themselves from abuse.
Staff
members give a monthly radio talk on FEBC, covering issues
such as parenting, marriage, and dealing with anger. The
call-in program has received a good response, and Trans
World Radio is now interested in adding a similar broadcast.
MTI is aware of the need to work together and regularly
meets with other agencies in Cambodia concerned with child
welfare.
The
White House is equipped with several meeting and counselling
areas, with one room used for play therapy. Although Grace
and Elijah are MTI’s only professionals at the moment,
they are expecting to welcome two more social workers
from the UK and Singapore in the coming year, as well
as a psychiatrist from Finland. The Sims are also committed
to training Cambodians. Four of their staff are studying
for certificates. MTI plans to offer a one-year intensive
course in counselling in 2006, not only for its own workers
but for those in other NGOs.
“Once
we have adequate trained staff, we can research the feasibility
of starting a short-term crisis center for abused children,”
asserts Elijah. “There is definitely a need. Although
there are residential facilities, these put orphans together
with sexually abused children and those who are commercial
sex workers. Our dream is to provide a shelter where a
team of professionals can help the recovery of abused
children and families.”
Cambodia’s
killing fields are still killing, with the greatest number
of landmines per capita in the world. But millions of
other men, women and children face a slower death through
destitution, disease, and abuse. This December 900 Cambodian
children will receive what may be their first-ever Christmas
presents, packed in shoeboxes from MTI. Far more significantly,
the work of Mercy Teams makes it possible for them to
receive the gift of eternal life and hope. Through our
support, we, too, can take part in making a difference.
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